As a correspondent sports writer for The Casey County News, I
write an weekly editorial column for the publication. Published June 5,
2013.
I attended three sports banquets last week, as the spring
sports have now concluded. During the boys’ tennis banquet, Coach Williams was
telling a story about one of his athletes taking time at different points to
thank him—for help, advice, whatever the case may be.
It brought back a phrase I, myself, made a habit of saying
at the end of my practices as an athlete at Bellarmine University.
“Thanks for the workout, Coach.”
I probably started saying it my junior year at the end of
each practice—maybe even my sophomore year. Most of us on the team said it. And
that is because our coach had always said it to us.
It was always odd to me as a freshman when we would be
concluding a tough workout—or even an easier one—and Coach Washington would
smile, and his quiet, Washington-way, say, “Well, thank you for the workout,
ladies.”
I wasn’t sure what it meant. We had not given him a workout.
He stood there the whole time and was definitely not as exhausted as us. Was he
thanking us for working out? But we were on a team… on scholarship… we had to
be there, so why did he feel the need to thank us for doing what we were
supposed to do?
But with our small workout group, I began to realize what
his thanks meant. He was our coach, but he saw what we did together every day as
an all-in effort. He was there for us and we were there for him and seeing the
effort we put into a practice—sweat and pain and pushing through pain—he never
failed to tell us thank you for that. He knew we could just as easily show up
and not give any effort.
In the same light, I came to see that his dedication to
being there deserved my thanks as well. He could show up and not care what we
did, not pay attention, never do anything new. But, instead, he masterfully
planned each workout with the intent of making us better athletes. He spent his
time with us—and away from us—thinking of ways to help us become better
athletes. He didn’t have to put that kind of effort into it, but he did. And
for that, it only seemed right to end each practice saying, “Thanks for the
workout, Coach.”
Athletics become a different ball game (no pun intended)
when you begin to realize that making yourself the best possible is something
others are investing time and dedication into as well. It changes when you
realize that you have a coach or family or friends or teammates, that are going
to put work and care into your improvements, not simply because it is their job
or because they are being paid, but because they genuinely want you to succeed.
It can easily seem “expected” that the athletes show up and
work hard at practice or that the coach shows up and have a workout planned.
But remember the special relationship you share and the silent promise you are
making to each other every day you show up to practice is something special and
different than the effort you put into actual competition. Practice is where
you show each other your dedication to becoming the best.
With summer here, most sports are now “optional” as the high
school seasons are not active. The time put into athletics for both athletes
and coaches is the proof of the level of dedication to success for both. So,
especially during the summer, it won’t hurt to walk away saying, “Thanks for
the workout, Coach.” My guess is your coach is thankful for the hour or two (or
three!) of work you just put in as well.
2 comments:
Ok, I would like to chime in on this one...lol. Reading this post brought back so many good and happy memories. Made me laugh to see you type what he did for us and it reminded me of those times running up that stupid hill and him singing slave songs to us as we ran up the hill in pain!! As much as I hated some of those days, I miss that time---our track days- us spending so much time together!! Miss you Peata and can't wait to see you +2 soon!
I saw I had a comment on this post and knew it must be from Rachmo! :) I miss it too (and being in that good of shape!). I hope that Washington is doing well these days! BU track memories would NOT be the same without him, despite how crazy and weird we thought he might have been at times...in the end, he was great!
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